our first vacation with Vanessa!

We’ve been on car trips with her before, but nothing over 3 hours. This time we flew to Virginia Beach to meet my parents and sisters at a beach house we rented! Some thoughts/lessons:

– Having a stroller in the airport is amazing. My back muscles are not up to carrying her around everywhere, but with a stroller we can go on walks, etc. We were able to gate check it on all 4 flights so we’d pick it up right when the plane landed. (although one time one of the wheels was out of alignment :-/)

– Vanessa was a real trooper. She even slept on two flights that were around her nap time.

– We bought her a seat, and on the recommendation of Baby Bargains we bought a Cosco Scenera Next for the flights (and rental car). It’s very cheap, lightweight, and pretty easy to install. Kind of annoying to have to carry it around the airport, though…

– Feeding her in a carseat in the car/on the plane worked pretty well.

– We tried to keep her on Central time throughout the trip – goes to bed later, sleeps later, what’s not to like? This kinda worked until it didn’t.

– She had her first trip to the beach! She was pretty hesitant the first day, but the second day she liked it, although more because she wanted to eat sand. (she ate a lot of sand; I am a terrible father!) But she did like sitting with me in the waves…and playing with mud…and trying to eat it.

– Family bathrooms in the airport are the best thing ever for changing diapers.

– Unfortunately, on the way back I booked us a 3 hour layover in Dallas. I’m not sure what I was thinking – more time in the airport is nice to not be rushed, but that is toooooooo long! Vanessa wouldn’t go to sleep because there were too many exciting things happening. (i.e. people walking around)

– But airports are a great place to have people comment on how cute your baby is!

– Sorry to people on that last flight – she cries a lot when she’s going to sleep, and there wasn’t much I could do about it.

– Relatedly, is 11 months too early to start the whole “inside voice” concept? Because it does not seem to be working.

– We had three carryons (backpacks for us, diaper bag for her), three suitcases, and a stroller (with her in it) and carseat to carry. So David and I carried four things a piece, which was doable but not pleasant. (once we checked the suitcases things got a bit better)

– TSA PreCheck was so helpful – it meant we didn’t have to take the formula out of our bags. Although the bags then had to be swabbed, which took a few minutes. (again, having a cute baby reduces friction here!) Oddly enough, on the way there one of us had to be patted down, but they let us choose which one. (it was a very thorough patdown…)